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Advices for women who wish to achieve security in the bed with a man

Men's Reasons

In our ecological situation and spread of the great variety of diseases we have all the risks to catch something not pleasant that will definitely cause unwanted malaises, pain, and so on, in other words health problems and bad consequences.

But the risks have been increasing, since there is such a concept of sexual transmitted diseases or as we call it STDs. Everyone who is well sexually educated, of course, is keenly aware of all these risks, anyway the contraception is often simply ignored. The main reason of this fact is incompetence of men to think about anything in the most important moment before sex.

Thus, women should be cleverer in this situation and not to loose their heads. But there are some situations when men are really mind condoms using. The reasons are following:

• Men don't want to interrupt the foreplay for condom wearing, because they loose the hardness and desire


• Men don't feel the proper sensations in condoms that they do without them, since the latex material prevents the natural contact with skin that is more pleasant and reduces gratification.

In this regard, those men who wish to have unprotected sex more probably never had any problems before or don't know about their existence at all.

Their naivety is connected with their confidence that a partner is clear and safe. In most cases if they are asked the question,
"Why don't you want to use a condom?",

a partner receives an answer, "I trust you".

Isn't it familiar to you? Well, those who are able to understand that the problem is more serious should object.

There are a great variety of viruses, infections, bacteria, that are not discovered for long time or don't show any symptoms and a person can have no idea that the disease already exists. If such a conversation with a man has happened there are some advices how to persuade him to use a condom.

Be honest

Firstly, you should define if this man is for one-night stand or for regular basis relations.

• If this is the first and the last sex, just "deliver an ultimatum": to have sex only with a condom, otherwise no sex at all! It would be better for you to use sex toys, than unprotected sex.


• В If your dates are regular and you want to see that man in your bed or life, try to establish the confidential relationship. Ask him about the tests he has passed in his life and how long time ago it was. Of course, the answers might not be always honest, but you can ask for more details and to discover if it was true or not. Later wonder why he doesn't want to apply a condom. You can receive the answer similar to the above mentioned reasons, i.e. low sensitivity and therefore low pleasure.

Step by Step

• Say him that you are not sure in your own good state of health, that you have passed some tests, but not all of them.
  
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• Tell him about some diseases and their consequences. Well, of course, before telling you should learn some facts from literature and collect more information. Try to find some stories from the real life especially that have happed to you or your relatives or acquaintances that will illustrate the situation in the better light. В В В В В 


• Show him that sex in a condom can be no less pleasurable than unprotected intercourse.
  
  On the modern market, the producers offer more and more types of condoms that have special properties: super thin, made of polyurethane material, specially shaped, ribbed, studded and etc. So, at last there are female condoms that are not felt by a man during love making! Prove him that love making can be simultaneously fantastically pleasurable and protected at the same time.


• Promise him a night to remember if he agrees to play your game and your rules. For example, offer to wear him a condom using your mouth. It is more likely that he will be unable to refuse.
  
  According to the surveys most men will never say no after such words.

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If all of these advices are not effective, you should think about the problem with the guy. In most cases this is irresponsible, silly person, who doesn't care about his own health and the health of the partner. So, you should think whether you need any relations with this man. Be selfish sometimes and think about yourself. Do you think that you are worthy of problems and suffering? В 

Of course, sex without a condom can give the most pleasant sensations and you can use other methods of contraception without the risk of pregnancy, but with a risk of infections.

Condoms are the easiest way to escape diseases. So, ask your partner to go to his doctor and submit to the tests for the infections you have any concerns about. And it would be better if you go with him and do the same. May be you don't have any problems and you can enjoy your time without a condom!