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Things you should not do in bed with a man

We love speaking and reading about sexso much, that we must have already become World’ Big Sex Champions or at least made the most handsome men carry our handbags everywhere. Alas! Even the latter is only a dream for many of us. We still have questions, problems and doubts and the main thing is that even the most scrupulous following of all advice and instructions does not guarantee our stunning orgasm and presence of an exhausted and happy male body near us.

Does this mean there is no use reading “Kamasutra for beginners” or “101 ways to make love”? Quite the contrary – more power to you! You can learn there a lot of useful information. But while studying this very complicated and delightful science of love, do not forget about some things that can spoil everything. And these are not trifles.

What you should not do in bed?

You should not be too sincere. As often as not women (as well as men) wish to know everything about their significant others: about their relationships with the previous partner and even intimate details of these relationships. Sexual intimacy and emotional attachment seems to be something that makes it possible to listen to any intimate stories calmly and even with a profound interest “We love each other, and nothing can affect our relationships!”. Usually such an “ingenuous” sincerity brings about offence and jealousy.

You should not confess how many sex partners you have had. If he insists on this, the best answer will be “one” (if this is close to the truth) or “a few” ( if there are more than 10 of them). As a rule, men believe everything women say. Even if he does not believe it and tries to persuade you that whatever you say he will not be hurt – do not be completely honest and do not mention the exact number of your ex lovers. Even the most open-minded men like to be the first or the second. He will not necessarily reproach you for your past but be sure, he will remember this forever.

Do not speak badly of your previous lovers, especially of their sexual abilities, even if you wish to emphasize your present partner’s perfection. This is fraught with his two bad suppositions “ If we part, she will discuss me with her new boyfriend” or “May be there is something wrong with her if she met only such monsters?”. Both thoughts are not good for you. You had better praise him like this: “This was the most delightful sex in my life”.

Strange as it may seem, you should not laugh. First of all, it is known that a woman ought not laugh when looking at the manhood of the lover, even if she is laughing with joy. Secondly, a you should not laugh for no particular reason, even if you suddenly recalled a foolish situation you got in when you were a little girl. In both cases he might be offended, and you will not manage you did not laugh at him (at his abilities, his body, his motions, etc). By the way women do not like it when men laugh while having sex either.

You should not try to set up yourself as a sex goddess if you are not too skillful lover, because this looks unnaturally and thus not arousing. Do not try to copy an erotic movie actress, your lover will realize this. The conclusion is quite clear: use all “sex textbooks” instructions very carefully and be ready to stop if you feel he does not like what you are doing. As it turns out, there are men who do not like oral sex, licking their nipples or unwonted sex positions.

You ought not bring to bed your favourite vibesand dildos without discussing the matter with your partner. You should not do this even if these sex toys seem to you devilishly good and the shop assistant made you believe your boyfriend would go out of his mind. Your partner is very likely to think you are not satisfied with your sex “without frills” and will get an inferiority complex. The same can be said about erotic fiction and movies. Discuss everything you want to introduce into your sexual relationships in advance.

You should not hurt him. Even if he likes your long nails (however, your girlfriends are more likely to admire your nails, rather than your boyfriend) – do not scratch his back while enjoying orgasm. Things that look awfully sexy in movies are very painful in reality, so try to restrain yourself. The rule “do not harm” refers to all other things you do while making love: men do not like it when you treat their “treasure” badly.

You should not be silent. This is one of the most unforgivable women’s “sins” from men’s point of view. Do not restrain your emotions. Cry, groan, - this will intensify your sensations and will let him know you enjoy what he is doing. Ardent and even wild woman’s reaction in bed makes a man believe he is an excellent lover, whereas he is going to blame you of absence of this belief. So do not be ashamed of your passion - there is no man who would not love it.

You should not smell badly. Men are very sensitive to scents of women’s body: starting with breath and ending with other thing (you know what exactly one). Bad odor is very likely to make you sexually unattractive for him. The conclusion is very simple: cleanliness is above all. And do not overdo perfume. Often men prefer female natural odor. So use your favorite expensive perfume when you go out. Do not take this scent to bed.