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All of us want to be happy and successful in all aspects of life, especially in sex. Some people consider that Tantra is the best way of achieving this goal.

What is Tantra?

It is sex, but not just an every-day sex when you come home, have dinner, watch TV, go to bed, find there your wife, decide whether to have sex or not, then do it quickly and saying "Good night, dear !" fell asleep. Usual sex has the goal – orgasm. Tantrical sex has no goals. It is a special system, a way of life when everything is subdued to one idea – the union of bodies, minds and spirits of two partners. Of course we won't become missionaries of tantra and press you to follow this tradition. We just want to make a short observation in this article, to learn more what Tantra is and how it can help our sex life to be bright and rich.


Tantra comes from Indian tradition. It appeared 4,000 years ago. It is a form of yoga. Yoga means union. So the main purpose of Tantra is a union of lovers. Thus they communicate with God and invite him into their bed.

What can Tantra give to you?

First of all you'll get passionate sex life. Most of men get the orgasm in 2-5 minutes after leading their penis into the vaginase. It is not enough to get the full pleasure, especially for women. Tantra helps to prolong the intercourse (beginning with the leading to the orgasm) from 30 minutes till several hours. Tantrical sex provides the great delight and the strongest orgasm. You will also have healthy body and spiritual growth as Tantra provides the rejuvenation of body and mind. And of course it will help to make the relationship between partners become warmer. Anyway, it can be an exciting experiment for both of you.

Tantric Lovemaking

So don't waste your time, call up your girl-friend and enjoy the new possibilities of “old” sex. Tantric lovemaking implies special breathing exercises, muscle contraction exercises, creating a sacred loving space, sensual massage, and sexual play and other rituals. You should use everything that can help you to relax and enjoy. Go to the supermarket; buy a bottle of wine, fruit, sea food, different scented oils, and candles. Don't forget to buy sex toys, which will be of great help to you. Being at home, switch off everything that can be switched off.
First of all relax and get rid of strain.

Listen to the romantic music, drink wine. Then you can begin exploring each other's bodies. You can cherish each other everywhere except the most strategic places. You can use everything: hands, mouths, noses, ropes, feathers, sex toys… So man is not in a hurry to get into a woman's vagina. When touching her body, you should start at the extremities and work in toward the breasts and genitals. You should do it slowly and be sure that the woman is well lubricated before any attempt at intercourse. You may help her to have a clitoral orgasm before moving on to intercourse.
The intercourse itself must be:
1) continuous;
2) without rush;
3) without any forces.
The main goal is to prolong the intercourse as long as possible. The man need to learn to delay ejaculation so that active lovemaking can be extended for hours.

The movements should be easy.

When one strains his body, soon he feels tiredness and it causes the quick orgasm. The movements must be as if you are dancing and enjoying it. When you feel you are able to move without strain you will lose the feeling of time. It will cause the unity with your partner and that is the main goal of the tantrical sex.
Although Tantric loving lasts several hours, this does not mean the partners are having active intercourse during that whole time. Intercourse can be combined with touching, oral play, quietly holding each other.
During the intercourse both can use the muscle contraction. It will enhance the pleasure during the intercourse. You can train it yourself beforehand. Imagine you are urinating and stop the flow of urine in mid-stream. You are squeezing and relaxing of muscles around your genitals which are exactly the right muscles in exactly the right way.
After the tantrical sex you will feel yourself young and energetic for several weeks.