Changing sex roles with a strap-on vibrator - Articles - sex toys

Today changing sex roles during intercourse can be very special experience for those who is willing to break all taboos.
One of the latest fancies in sex experiments is playing the role that is unconventional or to put it more precisely, absolutely reverse.

You may go through all steps of changing-sex-roles play: from getting acquainted with each other to the foreplay and the intercourse itself.

And what is most appealing - you have no need to undergo sex change surgery. All that is necessary is to get familiar with strap-on sex toys.

What do we call strap-on sex toys?

Strap-on sex toy (or harness) is a device, usually a dildo or a vibrator that is attached to harnesses.

There is actually a wide variety of harnesses types used for playing power-shifting like those similar to g-string, corsets or underwear as well as different types of attachments and stimulators (strap-on vibrator or strap-on dildo) and features of these stimulators.

For example, a strap-on vibrator can have a nice bumps on the inside surface of the base that adds to clitoral zone stimulation of the wearer. And what about rippled or bumped surface of the strap-on vibrator itself?

Or did you ever try strap-on sex toy with rotating beads or ejaculating dildo attached to harnesses? All these seem new to you? Then why not switch the parts with your partner and give him absolutely incredible sensations?

What do you need for your strap-on vibrator?

Those partners who decided to shift their roles may require various kinds of devices for anal and vaginal penetration, strap-on itself, lubricant, strap-on vibrator and a lot of other things to try and experiment.

Lubricant is an essential thing in strap-on play. Water-based lubes are best at making penetration smoother and more enjoyable. This can be especially referred to anal penetration.

A good lubricant usually has desensitizing ingredients which not only save you from any possible unpleasant feelings but give you necessary comfort during intercourse.


Strap-on vibrator is usually either battery-operated or rechargeable. Very powerful vibrations that are sent to genitals can bring to orgasm just anyone. All you need is to set the right level of vibrations.

And if talking about anal sex in particular such stimulation with strap-on vibrator can “work-up” anus very efficiently and makes further penetration an easy task for its lovers.

How to use strap-on sex toy?

First of all, you should make sure, that your strap-on vibrator is well adjusted to your body. The tighter it sits the more chances for its owner to achieve orgasm. If you don’t attach your strap-on firmly enough it may cause whipping, flopping and other things you surely won’t want to worry about during your erotic play.


Comfortable Penetration

You may choose the part of the body to fit your strap-on vibrator and feel most comfortable during the penetration. While most people would think to have strap-on sex toy worn on the waist in the first place, this is not actually the most popular way, as some find it a bit uncomfortable when harnesses are thrusting in the anus.

There are actually other ways to attach this type of sex toys, which is fitting it either around one's thigh or an arm. But if you want something really out of ordinary try to attach your strap-on vibrator to your chin and perform the most amazing oral sex during penetration with your strap-on sex toy.


Manual Stimulation

You may begin with manual stimulation or better said fingering. Don't forget about lubricant. As long as he gets more acquainted with the feeling you may introduce your vibrator. Combine rotating motions of the strap-on vibrator with thrusting motions of your body.

Don't forget that one of the most effective ways to trigger orgasm in men is to stimulate their prostate (which is about 2 inches inside anus). You may stroke it with your fingers from the outer part or simply trust your anal vibrator as it’s usually designed to give all the desired sensations to the receiver.


Penis Stimulation

You may simultaneously stimulate his penis with your hand, but don’t overdo as it can be "too much of a good thing" for a newbie.

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Keep in mind that you are in control of your experiment so be creative but open to your partner's suggestion.