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Sexual abstinence. FAQ

Everyone knows that any part of the body is designed for a certain purpose, and that it must function, otherwise many health problems might occur.


This concerns all body parts, including sex organs.


That is why people who for some reason do not have sexual relationships worry about this fact.


Some people are strongly convinced that sexual abstinence is extremely harmful, whereas others think that it can be even healthy. Actually, it is difficult to say who is right.

Some persons who have quite a low libido do not suffer from abstinence, others are used to active sex life and consider abstinence to be a real torture. So it is quite clear that when discussing this matter (we mean harm sexual abstinence causes) we should necessarily take into consideration a certain person's libido, characteristics or his or her personality and state of sexual health.

The regularity is quite clear - the lower sex drive is, the easier a person find it to live without sex, and vice versa.


If a person is inclined to neurotic reaction, than both abstinence and intensive sex life might cause him or her to get nervous, bad-tempered and sometimes even aggressive. What to diseases, both abstinence and very active sex life can cause aggravation of the disease.

What is harmful about sexual abstinence?

Let us begin with men
Abstinence can cause considerable problems for a man, for example he might get some problems related to ejaculation.

Actually, all consequences sexual abstinence might cause depend on both a man's age and duration of no sex period. For example a man of 25 who has a very high sex drive is likely to consider even two weeks without sex a torture, however, no matter how long he did not have sex, he is not going to suffer from any sex problems after the period of abstinence ends.

Being 30-35 years old a man is likely to suffer from early ejaculation and erection problems after a few months of sexual abstinence. However, as a rule these problems disappear as soon as a man begins having regular sex contacts again.

However, if a man is in his forties he might need medical treatment. Sexual abstinence lasting more than 2 or three months can stop a man's sex life if he is older than 50.


What about women?
Numerous studies show that long abstinence can be quite harmful for a woman.

The matter is that women need experiencing erotic sensations and orgasm for a normal psychological state. Being deprived of sex a woman becomes bad-tempered, explosive and even aggressive. For a woman sex is not simple intercourse, but a sign of close relationships with other person as well.

Lack of such relationships causes considerable changes in a woman's personality - she becomes strict, critical and inclined to condemn everything and everyone. No doubt, such a temper is not going to make this woman happy and successful in any field.

Actually, many women suffer not only from lacking a beloved person, but from lack of sex itself. Women do need orgasms which give them enormous pleasure and relaxation.

At the very beginning of abstinence women experience considerable increase of libido, however after some time sex drive decreases and can even disappear. After abstinence stops, a woman might experience unpleasant sensations during intercourse, as her vagina does not get wet enough after a long period of abstinence. As well abstinence cause a woman to be less sensitive, as well she might suffer from anorgasmy. Usually a woman becomes able to achieve orgasm only after a few months.

What can people do to reduce harm abstinence cause?

The fact that you do not have a permanent partner does not mean that you should sleep around only in order not to cause harm to your health. No doubt, you know that occasional relationships are much more harmful than sexual abstinence, as they are fright with STDs, the worst being AIDS.

Perhaps one of the best ways out is masturbation. Though masturbation cannot replace full blooded sexual relationships, it really can make your life easier while you have to refuse sex. In order to make your sensations even more intensive and orgasm stronger, you can use sex toys. Sex toys do help people, and not only in situation when they do not have a sex partner. Sex toys as well can refresh your relationships by adding some piquancy.

What can we recommend? Men can use realistic sex toys which perfectly replace female body or some its parts, we mean love dolls and artificial vaginas. What to women, most of them prefer dildos or vibrators.

By the way, some vibes can change your idea about pleasure a woman can get from sex. Let us take as an example rabbit vibrator. If you have not yet used a rabbit vibrator, than you certainly should do this.

Rabbit vibrator, unlike usual one, has an additional feature, i.e so called ears. But what for? The fact is that while the shaft of the rabbit vibrator is stimulating your vagina, its ears are tickling your clitoris. This is exciting, isn't it? Rabbit vibrator is going to give you enjoyment you can never experience during usual intercourse. May be abstinence is not so bad as it seems?
But do not forget - no rabbit vibrator can be better than a beloved man!