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Do you speak sexish?

Do you speak sexish?

The way you can figure out what your woman wants even if she is silent.

Men cannot understand why sociable and talkative women prefer to pretend deaf and dumb in bed. However, this is not the exact word to describe their behavior. Women scream, groan, cry with enjoyment, but cannot express their sexual wishes and desires in simple words. Perhaps one day in a Perfect world a Perfect woman will be able to say something like "Honey, could you please slightly bite my clitoris and move your head like you are drawing figure of eight? There is a chance this will vary my sensations".

Perhaps this will be possible in the Perfect world. But I cannot pronounce such terrible words aloud, at least during the first ten years of staying together.

In bed women prefer to communicate with help of hints, gestures, winks, moving their ears and other possible means. They hope that you are clever enough to guess what they want. However, this technique does not always work.

The situation seems to be hopeless. And the worst thing is that women do not have a common code of sexual communication. Everything would be much simplier if all women agreed for example to close the left eye when they want their lover to be quicker, or show their tongue when they feel a need for doggie-style or using a sex toy. Men's life would be easier then, but unfortunately every woman still invents her own signs and hints to show what she wants. Nevertheless I tried to gather and systematize all these signs in order to help you understand what it means if she??В¦.

Whispers: "YES, YES, YES!"

You might think she is ready to climb the cook-table and make it hot there. In fact she asks you to go on doing what you began.

"When I like what he does I whisper "yes!" to let him know I enjoy this rhythm and this position. Unfortunately, some men think I want to say I am going to orgasm. So they penetrate even deeper, move quicker and thus spoil everything" (Paula,24)

She begins tumbling your hair when you kiss her breast

You can think she is going to make dreadlocks on your head. In fact she wants oral sex.

I will never dare push his head down to show him I want oral sex. I understand this can be irritating. The only thing I can do is to tumble his hair when he kisses my breast or belly. I think it can suggest him the idea I want his head somewhere lower." (Linda, 22)

She mumbles and turns aside

You might think she has choked with a hair and tries to spit it out.

Actually, she does not want to change the position.

When my boyfriend tries to make me change the position I mumble ???m-m-m??? and turn my head aside. Unfortunately, he does not always understand me??? (Kate, 28).

She says: "Wow! I like it!"

You can think she is delighted with you. Actually she wants you to talk with her.

"I love speaking to my partner while having sex. I love it when he comments his motions, when he says what he is going to do next, what he feels??В¦ I am ashamed of speaking about such things, at least in the beginning, then I mumble something like "Oh, God!" or "Wow!". My boyfriend already knows I am trying to make him speak??? (Liza, 29).

She kisses your ear

You might think she wants to be like Mike Tyson. Actually, she wants you to do the same.

"I go mad with enjoyment when my boyfriend kisses my ear. Perhaps ear is one of my erogenous zones. How do I manage to make my sex partner lick my ears? Everything is very simple "I begin kissing and licking his ears!"(Karen, 25)

She licks her lips

You might think she cannot forget box of chocolate she had eaten up before you went to bed. Actually, she wants you to kiss her.

"Kiss me!" sounds too slobbery and humiliating. When I want kissing I begin licking my lips. No sane man can look at this indifferently and begins kissing my lips at once. (Irene,18)

Unlike women, many men do not hesitate to explain what they want and do not want while having sex. However, they could do this a bit nicely. Here are some tips for those who are not familiar with the rules of sex courtesy.

You want her to stop being like a sex toy doll and move a little her luxurious body.

Wrong : "By the way, have you ever heard song "Move your ass?"

Right: "Come on, honey, come on, help me" oh-oh-oh!

You want her be a little quicker and more active while amusing herself with the best part of your body.

Wrong: "Are you a lefthander?"

Right "Yes, yes! Do not fear, you won't hurt me! Yes, come on, come on!" (do not be afraid of overdoing emotions, and joyful cries out!).

You want this worst oral sex in your life to turn into something more exciting.

Wrong : "Oh, honey! I can't get how you drink coffee and eat sandwiches with such unmovable lips and tongue!"

Right : "You are magnificent! You are a gem! Oh, gods, how excellent you are doing this."

Praise her, encourage her! She will want to do everything better!

You want her to orgasm. You cannot restrain yourself any longer.

Wrong: You have only five minutes to come!

Right: Tell me what you want and I will do everything! I love you and I want you to be happy with me.

Some sentimental girls orgasm even while listening to these nice words.