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How to please her clitoris

Mother Nature has created men and women different and the most obvious difference lies in their anatomy. As men are used to see their penis at least several times per day, most women need to perform some quite complicated manipulations in order to get familiar with their genitals, not saying about the most hidden one - vagina. I can only imagine what a man should feel to puzzle out your intricate female privities! But if you really want to give her precious moments of heaven pleasure, pay attention to the love bud of her body- clitoris. So let's take a look at the very joy buzzer!
What is clitoris and where to find it?

Clitoris is a very sensitive organ, which can be found above the urethra and looks like a pea, hidden under a hood. What we see is only the outer part of the clitoris, the whole organ being rather concealed. When the outer part of the clitoris is stimulated, it swells and becomes hard, and very sensitive! Clitoris is the only organ which serves nothing but a pleasure receiver. And for most women, clitoris stimulation is a sole way to reach orgasm. It is possible to arouse clitoris during intercourse, but direct stimulation is more effective.
How to stimulate her love bud?
Make her feel at ease!
First, it would be much comfortable for a woman if you lie her down. Besides you can have a better view of her genitals and particularly her most receptive spot. So the best position here would be your woman lying on her back with her legs wide open, while you will be sitting between her legs. It would be even better to put some pillows under her buttocks so that she could feel even more at ease. It can be useful to have a lubricant handy. You can purchase a good water-based lubricant in any sex toys store. Warm the lube in your palms and get ready!
Communication
Communication is a key to great sex and it's surely a good thing to find better understanding in the bedroom. Ask her to prompt you on your actions. Does she likes clitoral stimulation to be gentler or firmer? Would she consider a clit vibrator as a helper in your play? If you are not quite sure about your touches, watch her reaction: if her face is relaxed, you are on the right path! Keep to regular rhythm and don't vary it too often.
Clitoral stimulation techniques
• Put your thumb and your forefinger above the vagina on her inner vaginal lips close to her clitoris. Stimulate the tip of her clitoris in a circular motion, stroking her inner lips with your fingers up and down. She will let you know if she is ready for a more direct stimulation, if she opens her legs wider, moving her buttocks close to your hand.
• You should know that most women do not prefer direct clitoral stimulation, so don't try to "push the button" or touch the "pea" firmly, as clitoris is very sensitive to rough touches. Just take a look at clit vibrator, as the creators of these wonder sex toys had surely envisaged all the peculiarities of women's anatomy.
• Give her long rotating strokes with your fingertips, simultaneously teasing her inner lips and vaginal opening. If you use clit vibrator, it's even simpler.
• Another way to please her is to pull the hood of the clitoris softly with your fingers. Don't forget that clitoris is a tender organ so it's better to stimulate longer rather than spoil the pleasure by clinging like grim death. Thus keep in mind that slow and steady wins the race!
• If you won't to give her even more, try simultaneous G-spot and clitoral stimulation. It can require more efforts from you, so think over a great sex toy, designed to make your "work" easier - a clit vibrator. There is actually a wide range of clit vibrators to try, most popular being bullet sex toys, to provide your partner unbelievable sensations not only to clitoris, but also to vagina, inner vaginal lips, anal area, nipples and just anywhere your imagination suggests. Strap-on clit vibrator is another type of sex toy, which is also very convenient to wear. You simply need to adjust straps on her body and control the speed of the clit vibrator with a remote control (if it has one). It is very easy in use: while she wears this fantastic strap-on clit vibrator, you may penetrate her with your fingers or penis. Believe it, sensations are nothing but fantastic! Another type of sex toys meant for very effective clitoral stimulation is discreet sex toy. They are usually small in size, being nonetheless very powerful. Besides, they look quite inconspicuous, which of course, makes such clit vibrator a real gift for your beloved one.
So be open to new ways of pleasing your partner and giving her or him enjoyment he really deserves! The feedback is just worth it!