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I do not have sex because I want to orgasm

Every second woman who has some difficulties with achieving orgasm is ready to join "Frigid women club".

If you have some doubts about your sensuality, than we suggest you to undergo a simple test:

Do you have erotic dreams?

Do you get aroused being caressed and kissed by a man, especially the one whom you love?

Do you have any erotic fantasies?

If at least once you answered "yes" than you can justly stop suspecting yourself of frigidity, as all your suspicions are groundless. A really frigid woman is one who is completely indifferent to sex, who has never experienced sex drive, let alone orgasm. All other sorts of sexual disorders (such as rare or hard-achieving orgasm, weak libido) can be treated.

According to the statistics circa 65 per cent of women are constantly suffering from chronic sexual dissatisfaction. The same statistics claims that a half of these 65 per cent think that almost nothing can help them to achieve harmony in sexual relationships.

Never give up! Perhaps the fact that you paid attention to this article and decided to read it means that you have problems related to sex and want to learn something new. Actually, there are plenty of ways to get rid of frigidity one of the most effective being masturbation which involves use of some sex toys . Masturbation gives a woman possibility to learn more about her sexuality, to find out what sort of stimulation she likes most. Use of sex toys, in particular dildos and vibrators, lets a woman know what sort of frictions she likes most during intercourse.

If you are looking for a way to increase your sensuality, than perhaps you have already know about everything mentioned above - masturbation, sex toys, etc. - and you might wonder whether you can be given another recommendations. Actually there are some. For example unsex which implies almost complete sex negation. Are you surprised? Actually, you should not. Researches show that among 100 couples who practiced unsex, only four remained dissatisfied with the results of this "treatment". By the way, "sex negation" helps not only women who suffer from anorgasmy, but men who have some difficulties with achieving erection as well.

What does unsex imply and why is it effective?

Imagine the situation you perhaps already had - once you make up your mind to buy a new sweater (shoes, bag etc) of a definite color and model. You go to at least 10 shops but everywhere you are offered something similar but not exactly the thing you are looking for. You go to another 10 shops, but in vain. After that you lose any hope to find the thing you want, and go to the nearest shore to buy a dozen of handkerchiefs and - voila - you see exactly this sweater (shoes, bag, etc) you were looking for!

Of course, this is a very crude analogy, but sex implies the same - once you stop concentrating on a problem (for example, on orgasm) and begin thinking about something else, and the problem solves itself.

There are two variants of unsex. Let us speak about the first one

You and your partner should agree that you are not going to have sex during at least seven days. As before you have dinner together, watch TV, discuss your problems and even sleep together, but you do not touch each other even with finger. Conversations about sex are not forbidden! One day you will certainly realize that there is nothing sexier than talking about how not to have sex. You will begin counting the remaining days. You will be anxious to touch your partner's naked body! And you will be surprised with your sensations when these 7 (10, 20) days pass!

Variant 2

You can do everything you want, but you must not have intercourse. You can kiss and caress each other, but without any particular purpose. As the result you do not expect to orgasm - why should you, if you agreed not to do anything that leads to it? Do not be surprised and even shocked when you suddenly orgasm! Believe it or not, this tip works. At least you can try this sort of unsex in order to recall your youth. This is really exciting!