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Say no to conservatism in sex!

You are in love. Spring is in your heart. First dates, flowers, first kisses, first sex. All is new and exciting. You discover new world and enjoy each second of being together. But life is life. There are too many things and people that are willing to disturb you and draw away your attention. With time you notice that rent bills, your friends, parents, work occupy most of your thoughts and there is too little space for sex and love. It’s a hard work to preserve the relationship at the same level as it was at first. Both women and men complain about periodical coolness. Is it inevitable for the relationship to become cooler with time? All depends on you and your mutual desire to enjoy each second of being together. Here are some tips how to liven up your relationship and especially an intimate one.
What can be more boring than conservatism in sex? Try new things and each time you will open new worlds with new possibilities. Use unusual smells, sounds, accessories to feel the newness which is a great aphrodisiac that can help your sex to be variable each time.
For example, let’s see the process of your lovemaking: each of us depends on many things such as work for example where we have a certain time-table. With time we get used to each others time allocation and regulate our sex to it. Remember the beginning of your dating. Sex was for sure unexpected, not regular, at those places where the desire appeared. Was it bad? You enjoyed each other and were grateful for the minutes of pleasure stolen from the routine. First that we try to change if it is possible it is time of your lovemaking. Add a little variety in your time-table and you will see the result. Forget the football match or news. The result of it will be the same whether you see it or not. You will find it out next day, go to the bedroom immediately …
Go to the bedroom. Why bedroom? That is the next thing that we are going to get rid of. Who said that we must make love only in the bedroom? Spice up your sex life by doing it in the kitchen or somewhere else. For example water is a highly sensual playground. Sexual intercourse that occurs when you are under water is often portrayed as a very sexy fantasy. But remember that besides pleasure and novelty water causes some difficulties. It washes away a woman's lubrication. Besides, if during foreplay the man periodically laxes the condom can slip away – you know what it means. That shouldn’t discourage other forms of sexual play: rubbing, kissing, caressing, a nice hand job, nipple, clitoral and anus stimulation. Just stay creative and after foreplay in the water you may go to your favorite bedroom. It’s better to use special waterproof lubricants and sex toys specially designed for water playing
Sex toys. Use them during sex. Don't forget that using your vibrator while being penetrated by fingers or a penis is a great way to have one orgasm after another! There is a great variety of them. You will surely choose something to your mutual taste. Plenty of vibrators , dildos, sex toys for men, for women, anal toys, toys for masturbation and many others.
Masturbation: People usually masturbate when there is nobody around to see. They usually do it either for health purpose or because of the loneliness even if they are not single at the moment. I hope with the help of this article you won’t need to it with this purpose. But I hope you use it as a means of refreshing your sex life. Try to masturbate together. It will cause the better arousal and will help you ho learn more about preferences of your partner.
Preferences of your partner...Try to find out what he or she is dreaming about. May be all his or her life your lover wanted to try anal sex but was shy to tell you about it. Try new kinds of sex even kinky ones if it will bring spice in your sex life. There should not be place for shyness between two if they love and rely each other. Enjoy yourselves!