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The Male G-Spot

Most of us know that women have a mysterious G-spot. More or less we learned about it. But do you know that men are also not left behind? Yes, they also have their own mysterious spot. Let's learn more how to get in touch with it.

The male G-spot is actually the prostate. Everybody knows that men have something called the prostate but not everybody is aware that it is also a great source of pleasure for men. This is also called the P-spot as it comes from the name of the organ. It is the size of a walnut and is located 4 cm inside the anal canal down from the bladder and in front of the rectum. "Its actual function is to create secretions that are part of the fluid in semen," says Dr. Fromer. Being stimulated, the prostate can provide a powerful erotic pleasure because of the concentration of nerve endings.

Besides, the prostate stimulation can delay the ejaculation and increase the intensity of orgasm by several times. Some men are shy of the process because they consider it a hint on their homosexual preferences. Besides, there are prejudices connected with anal sex. So don't be too insistent in your desire to make your lover happy even if he doesn't like it. Talk to him to find out if he is willing to try it. Another way to get him relaxed is gentle playing with the outside part of his anus and his perineum, the area of skin between the anus and the testicles. It also has lots of nerve endings and, being stimulated, can bring great pleasure.

You can do it orally or massage it with the fingers or vibrator. The sex toys, especially vibrators can greatly help you. Smooth his penis, testicles and perineum with the lubricant. Gently move the vibrator over his testicles and up and down his perineum, tease his anus. Then you can slowly come up to the stimulation of his prostate gland that lies underneath his perineum. Just press your thumb or knuckle into the skin that may stimulate his prostate gland, an organ that lies underneath the perineum. By external pressure on the gland you also can massage his P-spot. But it won't be so intense as internally. It's better to use the knuckles not to scratch the skin of your partner. Keep the nails rather far off if you want your sex to be continued. Don't keep up stimulating too long or too intensive. The nerve endings become exhausted - "Too much love will kill him".

Now if your partner is ready to go further and deeper let's learn how to stimulate the P-spot internally.
The most effective way to access the prostate is anally. He should lie on his back with his knees up. Sit between his legs. Now put in your finger and press it against the front wall of the rectum. You will need special thicker lubrication for the anal playing. When you found something that feels like a walnut give him a minute to get used to a new feeling. Watch his reaction. If it hurts him it's better to stop. Move the finger in and out gently at first then you can do it more strongly if he likes. You can also continue to play with his penis. Try to push his stomach a little. It may enlarge the pleasure.

Do not hesitate to use the sex toys. Check up the sex toys that are specially designed for the anal sex, that are inserted in the rectum.

Don't forget to wash hands or your sex toys after their being inside a rectum as you can transfer bacteria to other parts of the body afterwards.