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How to give an Erotic spanking

Spanking is not only a way leather-clad lovers are used to enjoy each other's company. If you think that you can inspire a fresh air in your sex life, then erotic spanking is what you might appreciate as a spice additive to your daily sex menu.

Why erotic spanking is so arousing?

If think that spanking comes down to beating the butt and giving pain you might be absolutely wrong. Spanking can be not less pleasurable than sexual act itself.

If you are receiving an erotic spanking, the feeling of helplessness and submission can be very exciting and sexual. The anticipation of a sex play is so sweet that can bring you to the heights of sexual arousal before the sexual act itself.

Whenever you choose a part of the dominant partner who is spanking, the arousal comes from the feeling of a total control and visual delight as you watch at one of the most sensual body part - your partner's buttocks.

Erotic spanking step by step

1.Trust comes first

Never think of erotic spanking if you do not trust your partner. The core of the spanking is that you both know it's a game and both agree to give each other a special treat.

You may need to ask your partner and find out what he or she thinks about having a nice spanking play. If your partner have some doubts, you should either explain why erotic spanking can be enjoyable or suggest exchanging the parts where your partner, for example, will be a the one to rule the game.

2.Make up a scenario

The main thing is to make your partner wait for spanking. Anticipation increases sexual desire and can be prolonged in different ways.

First, you can have your partner self-stimulate till the time of spanking treat comes.

Another way to excite your partner on a mental level is to follow certain ritual before spanking. For example, your partner act as if asking for mercy and you can literally forgive him or her after some punishment.

3.Choose a proper outfit

Nothing is more in-your-face than erotic outfit that speaks itself. Appealing latex wear or erotic lingerie make a scene more realistic and gives you more intense sensations. You may use various sex toys for spanking like paddles, whips and riding crops. These toys can take you on another level of sexual pleasure and satisfaction and make you feel a real master.

4.Punish and reward

The main thing about spanking is to arouse your partner. You lover may not like continuous spanking especially if it's their first experience. Vary spanking and stroking techniques. You may also stimulate her clitoris and vagina or his anus and penis when making pauses between spanking. This will make spanking arousing and desirable.

5.Improve spanking technique

Begin with spanking when your lover is dressed up or half dressed. When your partner is warmed up you can proceed to more intense spanking on naked buttocks. Keep in mind that the flatter is your hand with your fingers being apart, the more intense slap you give. It may also be more painful so watch over your partner's reaction.

Slow rhythm with irregular slaps is the most effective way to enjoy spanking as you partner doesn't know when the next slap will occur.