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How to fresh up the relationship

You have been married for a couple of years and thought that your marriage was quite a successful one. But with time you notice the passion is not so strong it was before, you make love infrequently because you are tired and there are no fresh feelings. Your sex is usual and well trodden. Do you think everybody feels the same? It's not true. Many couples admit that having gone through such crisis in sexuality they could renew their sex life. Here are some advice from sexologists and experienced married couples on shaking off the dust from your relationship.

First of all sex means good relationship

Of course sex in your thirty differs much from the sex in your eighteen when you are able not to sleep the whole night and remain fresh, beautiful and full of energy in the morning. With time self–confidence quits together with beauty (especially if your husband reminds you about problems with weight or wrinkles). Housekeeping takes all the time and strength and by the evening the body needs extra time for sleeping rather than for making sex. Anyway, sex life depends more on general satisfaction with the marriage than tiredness. If people are satisfied with theirse intimate relationship it will be a background to all other spheres of life. You should find out together if there is something wrong in your everyday mutual life. Look for the thing from which comes the disorder and correct it.

Give a treat to each other

The least love comes to those whom we love most of all. We usually don't forget to tell the husband or wife about all troubles of the day, to find fault with some trifles. And where is love and tenderness? Those who never forget about telling kind words and compliments won't learn what coolness in the relationship is. Was it long ago when you brought your husband a cup of coffee for the last time? When did you have a shower or a bath together? The more often you express your positive feelings to your beloved person the stronger your sex ties are.

Leave all troubles on the threshold

Home is home. Leave your work and your problems at your work place. You can also put off the half an hour useless telephone talk with a friend. If you have some urgent deals it's better not to plan sex because the thoughts won't let you relax. Tired bodies are making tired sex.

Don't turn your husband into a girlfriend

Remember there is a man near you not a girl friend. He should be seduced every day.

Don't tell him that you are becoming old and fat. It is the way to ask for a compliment. You understand it, he doesn't.

He doesn't see a hint in your words, he accepts it as a truth. If the wife tells that she became old, fat and ugly he will believe her. Who will like to make sex with such a woman?

Flirt with your husband

All women know that there is a million and one way the woman can use to flirt with an unknown man. It's more difficult to flirt with your own husband. Don't lose the opportunity to dance with him, tell the compliments, laugh at his jokes, and kiss his ear lobe - do the thing you have done during the period of dating.

Mood is the key words

The mutual mood for sex is very important. Do you know that real sex starts 24 hours before the action itself? If you dispose yourself for sex since the early morning, if you ring up your husband or wife telling that you are looking forward the evening impassionedly, if you come from work, make a light dinner with wine or champagne – you will have an appropriate mood and your best friend will feel it and appreciate.

Fantasize in the bedroom

Sexologists say that the worst thing in sex is the same script. Earlier or later but the partners get learnt each other well enough. Starting sex they immediately take the bull by the horns and use those kinds of petting that will bring the assured result. Use different positions, change places for making love, introduce sex toys and you will notice the result.

The advice to women: don't believe your husband who tells that he is completely satisfied with you. You always should try to be the inventive and bring something new to your sex life and your husband will never go to another woman.