Things you didn't know about her sex toys Many people think that sex toys are basically meant for those who are unsatisfied with their sexual life which is absolutely untrue for those who actually make use of them (to be more precise, most of us). A lot of misconceptions appear from misinterpreting the real state of affairs. In this regard many men just don't seem to have a realistic idea about women's use of sex toys. So let's reveal women's secrets together:
1. She uses sex toys!
Does it seem surprising to you? Then open your eyes. Women do use sex toys, however decent they may look to you. She however is too afraid to reveal it to you as you may think of her as an "unsatisfied", "dirty", "failure" and the like. Besides she hides her favorite sex toys in a secret place so that you will not catch her red-handed.
2. How does she do it?
There are a lot of means for a woman to please her body, where sex toys play quite a considerable part in solo sex she uses. It is evident that though men and women do masturbate, their stimulation methods are a bit different. As men are usually more concentrated on their manhood, women, as a rule, involve lots of erogenous zones, when using sex toys or simply their hand. In this regard, clitoris comes in the forefront among her hot zones. She also likes to stimulate her vagina, especially G-spot and breasts. But keep in mind that as clitoral orgasm is more easily achieved by most women, she pays special attention to this part of her body.
3. Why does she use sex toys?
There can be simply any reason why she uses sex toys but most often these are as follows:
1. She is lonely
Not being in serious relationships, she neither wants to have casual sex. Besides it can take quite a while before she actually is going to find "the one" to have a really full-fledged intimate life. Female vibrator can be quite a "substitute" for a partner.
2. She is in search for new sensations
She may simply like trying new things, and well, she could just be curious about sex toys. She had tried most of possible sex positions and all the sex practices and feels like trying something really chummy and exciting. All her friends had already used that wonderful female vibrator, so why shouldn't she do the same?
3. She is very hot
Nymphomaniac woman is probably the ultimate men's dream, though the woman herself may not be happy with "such an appetite". A woman with a hot temper should be lucky to have a partner at the same level of libido to satisfy her desires in full, which is not always possible. Don't be astonished to find an expressive collection of sex toys: female vibrators, dildos of all sizes, BDSM gear and the like in her bed-side table.
4. You can't give her what she wants
Unfortunately, there are not so many women to explain their partner what they really like and dislike in bed. For example, he is used to quick sex, while she can't get enough of a foreplay. Thus the problem finds its way in use of a device that knows how to meet her urges to the best- a female vibrator. Female vibrator won’t blame her for being too "cold" or "insensitive", female vibrator is always ready to "do the job".
Dildo or vibrator?
Many men think that women go crazy about dildos and their choice ranges somewhere between a big and a huge size. But frankly speaking, most women do give their preferences to female vibrator as they usually use it for external stimulation. There is a wide selection of female vibrators from clit vibrators to rabbit and g-spot vibrators, all of them meant for the best possible stimulation.
And finally, don't blame yourself if she finds that she uses sex toys, you may simply use them together!