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Female orgasm. How to achieve it?

Fortunately those times when female orgasm was considered to be something unnecessary remained in the passed. Today most men do their best to satisfy their female partners being convinced that female orgasm is the best proof of their being good lovers. Nevertheless, still there are women who know about orgasm only from women's magazines, TV programs, books and articles in the internet. What can they learn from all these sources of information?
They can learn that specialists distinguish three types of female orgasm (yes, everything is not so simple as it may seem):
Clitoral orgasm
Vaginal orgasm
And outside genital orgasm
By stimulating a woman's clitoris with fingers, tongue or a sex toy a man (or a woman herself, we mean with a sex toy) can make her achieve clitoral orgasm.
Vaginal orgasm requires stimulation of vagina with penis, fingers or a sex toy, for example with a vibrator. By the way, you should be aware that the more intensive stimulation is, the shorter vaginal orgasm is. And vice versa - if being achieved slowly, vaginal orgasm, according to many women, is more intensive and long-lasting.
Actually these two types of orgasm can be achieved simultaneously, if a man stimulates his partner's vagina with his finger at the same time giving her oral pleasure. Another way to achieve this "double enjoyment" is to use the rabbit vibrator, which is designed to simultaneously stimulate the vagina and the clitoris.
Outside genital orgasm occurs during kissing, embracing and caress without any stimulation of sex organs. Unfortunately only one of ten women can achieve such an orgasm.
Usually female orgasm lasts about 10 seconds, sometimes - up to a minute. Besides this orgasm can be single and multiple. A woman experiences waves of enjoyment overwhelming her one after another, almost without a break during about 10 minutes thus making her experience an enormous enjoyment.
With some minor exceptions every man cums in the end of intercourse. What to women, only one of four experiences this incomparable pleasure. Circa half of women often experiences orgasm, about 30 per cent - rarely and nearly 17 per cent do not achieve orgasm at all.
How to achieve orgasm
The worst thing is that many women simply do not know how to orgasm. Their partners might be the greatest lovers, they might do their best in bed, but in vain. This happens because human orgasm is related not only to erogenous zones, but mainly to brain. To be more precise, problems occur as the result of inability to define own sensations and to adequately appraise them.
Some women cannot relax and think about foolish things during foreplay. For example, she might think about her appearance, or on the contrary, she might be too eager to achieve an enormously great and incomparable enjoyment and as the result miss simpler but so desired pleasure.
Be aware of the fact that ability to experience sexual pleasure is not inborn. How can a woman define whether she is about to cum or not, if she does not know what sensations must precede orgasm.
Try to learn more about your sexuality, more about your sexual respond. You perhaps already heard that masturbation is the best way to learn how to orgasm (of course, we do not mean absence of real sex life). If a woman at least once in her life experienced orgasm while masturbating, no matter whether what kind of masturbation it was, with hands or with help of a sex toy, she is not frigid, she really can experience pleasure in bed.
The conclusion is very simple - masturbate, there is nothing shameful about this. For this purpose you can purchase a sex toy, for example a rabbit vibrator, as exactly the rabbit vibrator will help you to achieve both vaginal and clitoral orgasm simultaneously. The rabbit vibrator is a very peculiar sex toy, may be you have seen it. The rabbit vibrator consists of a shaft and ears. While the shaft is stimulating your vagina the ears are tickling your clitoris. Could you imagine something like that? Indeed, the rabbit vibrator is the best sex toy for achieving an enormous enjoyment and for teaching your body orgasm. However, if you think that the rabbit vibrator provides too strong stimulation, you might choose another sex toy, for example a simple vibrator or a dildo, without additional features. Choose whatever sex toy you want and have a good time! Be sensual!