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Female orgasm. FAQ

How do I know she had climaxed?

Of course, fake orgasms are very often met. It can be said that most women had faked orgasm at least once in their life. There are many "good actresses" who can perform quite a colorable climax, signs of the "real orgasm" are usually as follows:
• Vaginal muscles contractions
• Muscle contractions in other body areas like pelvis, urethra and anus
• Reddening of the skin
• Breath acceleration
• Some women can have so called "ejaculation" when fluid is exuded from the vagina

A woman who didn't have orgasm is not satisfied in intimate life, isn't it?

It can be partially true. The thing is that female orgasm is not so closely related to sexual satisfaction as male is. That's probably because of the difference between female and male sexuality. As woman moan zones are allocated more widely throughout their body in comparison with men's ones, which hare more concentrated in the genital area. Thus if a woman didn't climaxed she could be still quite pleased with her sexual life.
Though if she fails to climax having a regular sex life, this can become quite a problem for her and partners should think over the possible ways to overcome those difficulties.

Can a woman achieve orgasm without having a partner?

Orgasm does not necessarily require a partner, though it is considered that orgasm achieved with a partner is more intense. This may be due to emotional involvement with the other person, which adds to the intensity of orgasmic sensations. But in fact climax experienced during masturbation or sex toys usage can be as intense or even much greater. That explains the popularity of female vibrator nowadays. In fact, female vibrator is designed to match the needs of almost every woman. As long as external stimulation is essential to many women, female vibrator is just what doctor has prescribed.

Does the size of the penis influence the ability of a woman to have orgasm?

No, it doesn't. The truth is that not all the surface of vagina is sensitive, because nerve endings which react to sexual stimulation are mainly found either at the vaginal opening or well-known G-spot area (which is by the way just few inches inside the vagina). That's why it's not really the size that matters, but the right sex position, where these zones can be better stimulated and the way you use it. So stop worrying about the size and think about the better ways to enhance your performance. In this regard many women prefer female vibrators to dildos, because female vibrator features special settings to stroke those most sensitive zones of vagina and clitoris.

Is clitoral orgasm less powerful than vaginal one?

It's actually a matter of one's individuality rather than the difference between clitoral and vaginal orgasm. Though Sigmund Freud (a well-known psychoanalyst) considered clitoral orgasm as not a full-fledged climax, you can't say that clitoral orgasm is less intense than with vaginal one. Many women achieve vaginal orgasm only with the clitoris stimulation, thus you can't say for sure what gears the big O in the first place. Besides, if you use, for example, a rabbit sex toy, one of female vibrator's type, which has two options for clitoral and vaginal stimulation simultaneously, you can't say for sure where particularly your orgasm is felt, as female vibrator makes it all "mixed up".

Can a condom influence woman's ability to experience an orgasm?

We can't consider safe sex without using a condom. But some women complain that condom can affect their sensitivity in the bad way, which is easily solved with the usage of special lubricants, even flavored ones which you can find in any sex toys store and different kinds of condoms, for example ribbed condoms may considerably enhance sensations for a woman.