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How to Become a Passionate Lover. Masturbation.

Intercourse is a an exercise, and from this point of view it has much in common with soccer, swimming and other sports. If you want to swim good, for a long time and without getting tired, you must train yourself in order to become stronger and perform exercises for improving your breath and muscle work. If you ever been to a soccer training, than you certainly were astonished by workout followed by very hard exercises a soccer player has to perform before he approaches the ball. No soccer player is going to be allowed to play before his body becomes strong and flexible.
The same can be said about sex. Aren't you satisfied with your sex life? Than may be you are a player who began the game without necessary exercising? The fact is that YOU, and nobody else must learn to be sensitive and easy arousing, because men usually do not spend too much time on caressing your body being very aroused themselves. They always want to immediately "get down to business", without spending time and efforts on "unnecessary things". I think, you should devote days, weeks, or even months to make your body sensitive and easy arousing, and than you will not feel offended or deprived of pleasure even if your partner considers foreplay to be an unnecessary part of making love. So, are you ready? Than learn masturbation. Actually, there are many ways to masturbate. Now we are going to speak about mechanical masturbation, or masturbation with a sex toy.
Choose a day when you can be alone for a long time. Get undressed, disconnect the phone, and lie down. Close your eyes and slowly stroke your body with your hands. Now take a lubricant and put a little amount of it on the entrance to your vagina and clitoris. Do not hurry. Be careful about your sensations. Do you feel warmth when massaging your clitoris? What its part is more sensitive? Do you feel like being ready for something even more enjoyable? Than let us begin.
Have you never achieved orgasm? Do not despair. There are plenty of sex toys which do work wonders. Let us speak about one of them, which is called electric vibrator. Electric vibrator is not too expensive and it can be purchased in any shop where sex toys are sold. Are ashamed of going to sex shops? Than order an electric vibrator online. There are many sorts of electric vibrators and you will certainly find one which is going to suit you most.
Now let us get down to the very usage of an electric vibrator. You are still lying in peace with your eyes closed. You are relaxed. Now try to imagine something erotic and arousing.
Imagine whoever you want - a movie star, a singer, your handsome neighbor, your colleague or an inexistent man of your dream. Imagine he sees you lying on the bed. Your body wants him, it is anxious to get enjoyment! Imagine him caress your breast and belly, he is stroking your thigh and massaging your clitoris. Are you aroused enough? Let the electric vibrator replace his hands and penis. Do not hurry. You have a long night full of sensations. Do not restrain yourself. Enjoy vibration stimulating your clitoris and vagina. Let the man of your dream dominate your sensations and thoughts. You feel him somewhere deep inside you. You want, you do want to explode with orgasm! Does not this fantasy work? Than try another one. Explore your fantasy!
If you have difficulties with finding an appropriate protagonist, than open an erotic magazine and looking at a picture simultaneously apply electric vibrator. Let your fantasy arouse you. Some women imagine themselves being stolen, raped, attacked by a tiger or having sex with a few men simultaneously. You can do everything in your imagination and nobody is going to know what you were doing there. Do you believe me now that sex toys work wonders?
Some women do not dare masturbate until they are 20 or even 30. No wonder why they cannot achieve orgasm for the first time they masturbate even with the best sex toy. May be you need a few weeks of exercising to make your body sensitive. But your pleasure is really worth this time and efforts!
The main thing for any beginner is patience and belief in success. Researches show that 95 per cent of women who regularly use sex toys and electric vibrator in particular, achieve orgasm after a few weeks of regular masturbation. Why you should not?