Achieving Orgasmic Ecstasy Unfortunately, many women are responsible for failures in their intimate life, as they were taught to be totally incurious towards their own body. If you are ready to improve the situation, we offer you this guide to make your sex life an eternal pleasure and satisfaction.
PC-muscles
First step in developing your orgasmic response is learning your body and your sexual reactions. You should know what turns you on with a help of touching and techniques which make you regulate your arousal. The key to achieving orgasm is improving PC-muscles (pubocuccygeal muscles). PC- muscles or a sex muscle makes vaginal blood circulation better and this results in increasing your own lubrication and overall sexual potential.
Before you begin
First of all you'll need to concentrate. That is not so simple as it seems. In order to discover your sexuality you have to center on your own feelings. You should learn to get pleasure from your own touching and love your body.
For your initial experience you need time and place, where nobody can disturb you. Massaging oil will help to enhance your sensitivity for your whole body while lubricant will be for your genitals. You can turn on calm music to set a most relaxing atmosphere.
How does PC-muscle work?
Some women are puzzled about PC-muscles location, though everyone experienced its contracting during urination. If you will try to stop urination that will be due to the PC-muscle. In order to make you familiar with secret muscle you will need to make one simple exercise.
Lie on the back and introduce two pre-lubricated fingers in vagina. While contracting PC-muscle you must feel that vaginal walls come closer. After that you will need to take fingers apart and tense PC-muscles to bring them back together. If you failure to do that, it means that you need good training.
In order to train these muscles, you will need some object, for example a dildo or one of many other sex toys. A dildo filling your vagina will increase the power of contracting.
PC-exercise
There are many ways to control PC-muscles. They variegate in duration and number of contracting. The simplest exercise is straining PC-muscle for 10 sec and then loosing it. Initial work-out can make up ten exercises three times per day and later can be gradually increased.
A more detailed PC-muscle training is controlling its tension together with breath regulation.
- Take a deep breath and concentrate on your vagina
- Breathe out and tense PC-muscle
- Go on loosing muscles while taking breath and contracting on breathing out for about 18 times and then make a pause.
When you do this pleasant exercise, you improve circulation in pelvic area and this will add to excitation on your whole body. Later PC-muscles will be strong enough to give you and your partner unbelievable sensations. While you try to retain PC-muscle during intercourse your partner will feel embracing movements around his penis and this will certainly increase the chance to experience multiple orgasm.
You can also do your training just sitting at your workplace, though make sure you won't be absorbed in the process as you can easily lose the sense of reality.