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How couples use vibrators

Most people think that a vibrator is designed exclusively for masturbation, especially for female masturbation. Well, this idea is erroneous, as both men and women use vibrators and not only to enhance masturbation. Couples successfully use vibrator as well. Actually couples use vibrators for various purposes.

What do couples use vibrators for?

1. To enhance foreplay There are plenty of couples who use a vibrator (as well as many other sex toys) to enhance foreplay. They massage each other's erogenous zones to add spice sensations which cannot be achieved during usual foreplay which does not imply any sex toys or other additional features.

2. Clitoral stimulation during intercourse. As well couples use vibrators in order to provide orgasm of the female partner. The fact is that a great number of women who do not achieve orgasm during intercourse, as they necessarily need clitoral stimulation for reaching the peak of enjoyment. With a clitoral vibrator a woman can stimulate her clitoris during intercourse thus enhancing her sensations and helping herself to cum.

3. Anal stimulation. Couples use vibrators for additional anal stimulation which is considered pleasurable for nearly all men and many women. For this purpose couples use special anal vibrators which are thinner than usual ones and which have wide base preventing the sex toy from being lost in rectum.

4. Mutual masturbation. As well couples use vibrators for very exciting and spicy mutual masturbation. Both partners take a vibrator and masturbate in the presence of each other. Many couples find such a play very spicy and arousing. Mutual masturbation is really worth trying for those who wish to spice up their relationships.

5. To enhance oral stimulation. One more interesting way couples use vibrators. You might be surprised, but still, vibrators are used in partner sex to enhance oral stimulation. The vibrator is placed on the genitals while the performing partner gives to the receiving partner oral pleasure. These two kinds of stimulation give the receiving partner enormously pleasurable sensations which cannot be experienced during usual oral stimulation without use of sex toys.

By no means limit yourself to the mentioned above ways to use a vibrator in partner sex. Do experiment and you will find plenty of your own ways to use a vibrator and other sex toys to enhance your sexual relationships. However, keep in mind that a vibrator (as well as any other sex toy) gives pleasure only provided it is used properly. Take into account some tips.

Some tips for vibrator lovers

1. If your vagina does not produce necessary amount of natural lubrication, than necessarily use special lubricant which will help you avoid unpleasant sensations or even injures.

2. Anal stimulation with a vibrator or other anal sex toy necessarily requires use of lubricants as it is known that anus does not produce natural lubrication.

3. Always make sure the batteries are fresh enough, otherwise your pleasure is going to stop at the most exciting moment.

4. Do not buy the first vibrator you see. First of all think carefully what kind of vibrator you need: a classical vibrator, a clitoral vibrator or an anal vibrator.

Perhaps we have persuaded you that a vibrator is really worth trying for partner sex. However there must be an obstacle. The fact is that many men do not find the idea to use a vibrator in partner sex a good one. Some of them think this is unnecessary; others take a vibrator or another sex toy for a rival. Having such a partner it is not so easy to introduce a vibrator in partner sex. But it is possible.

How to persuade him to use a vibrator in partner sex?

Let your partner know that:

1. A vibrator is simply a sex toy which might spice up your relationships, but at the same time it cannot be the third participant of your lovemaking. Persuade your boyfriend that no sex toy can be better than his penis!

2. Let him know that you are not going to be the only couple in the world who use vibrators in partner sex. And that is true. According to some statistics about 10 per cent of American couples use vibrator in partner sex. Why you should not?

3. Let him know you cannot cum without clitoral stimulation. Yeah, stop pretending in bed! Instead use a clitoral vibrator to make your intercourse really enjoyable for you both!

4. Let him know that he can enjoy use of a vibrator as well as you as with a vibrator you have a chance to very pleasurably stimulate his most sensitive areas. As well men experience incredibly enjoyable sensations when being stimulated their prostate gland which is placed inside the anus. So let him know you can indulge his anus with an anal vibrator!

Do you realize how couples use vibrators? They use vibrators with pleasure!