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Everyone knows - women do masturbate. Though women do not have so strong desire to masturbate as men do (at least women do not practice masturbation so often), they do experience sexual arousal, especially during puberty. And they need satisfaction of their desire.

Healthy way to satisfy your needs

Many women, no matter whether they masturbate or not, feel embarrassed and even ashamed when speaking about masturbation or seeing something related to masturbation. They rarely share their experience in this field with their girlfriends.

Some girls being eager to please their boyfriend and trying to express their sensuality, often begin their sex life long before they are ready for having sex and emotional stress it might cause.

Taking into consideration everything said above it is not wonder that many women make love for years and never achieve orgasm. This situation only emphasizes the necessity to know own body to learn more about your sexuality and to be aware of peculiarities of own sexual response.

Masturbation is a very healthy way to satisfy your need for erotic sensation and orgasm and to learn all the things mentioned above.

Masturbation is not so simple as you think. There are plenty of ways to give yourself pleasure - you can do this with your hands, sex toys, stream of water, various objects. Now let us speak about a few of them.

Let us not speak how to masturbate with your hands and fingers. Every woman can do this if she wants to get sexual pleasure. Let us speak about another ways to satisfy your needs. For example, water masturbation. Shower, bath tube, Jacuzzi - with all these things you can achieve perhaps the greatest pleasure you ever experienced.

Shower

The best water stimulation can be achieved when taking a shower.

• Direct the stream of water on your clitoris and the entrance to the vagina


• Choose the necessary water temperature and pressure

You had better begin with slight stream of water and gradually make it stronger. Of course the stronger the stream of water is, the more stimulation you receive. Warm water as a rule gives the best effect, but be careful, do not burn yourself. Many women can achieve orgasm with such a clitoral stimulation in a few minutes.

Bath tube

• Fill the tube with water halfway


• Lie on your back and try to place your vagina under the tap


• Choose whatever temperature and stream you wish, as you feel comfortable and pleasant.

May be you will have to little raise your pelvis to make the stream of water to fall on your vagina. Try to apart your vulvar lips. Thus you will receive clitoral stimulation. After you find the best position relax, fantasize and get pleasure.

Clit vibrator

As you remember above we have mentioned that sex toys are great for masturbation, at least sex toys can give you more enjoyment than your hands and fingers. Why not trying a clit vibrator?

Actually, clit vibrator might cause almost unbearable arousal. Stimulation with a clit vibe is so strong that often it is enough to move it along the entrance to the vagina and vulvar lips. You can place the clit vibrator directly above your clitoris. As well you can massage your clitoris with a clit vibrator through your pants, if you are in a hurry.

Thigh contraction

Some women can achieve sexual arousal and even orgasm by simple contraction of thighs or by rubbing them against each other thus indirectly stimulating the clitoris. Sometimes they do this in public places.

If you see a woman with her legs crossed and she is bending her leg simultaneously contracting her thighs, than most probably she is experiencing much more pleasurable sensations than one might think (especially if she is waggling her legs in order to hide movements of her thighs, if she is unusually deeply and quickly breathing and tries to cover her belly with a magazine or a bag).

Some recommendations

When masturbating at home:

• Contract your thigh together with achieving orgasm


• Always contract your thigh at the moment when you cannot help achieving climax (but have not achieved it yet)


• Remove your hands and let your thighs do their job until you cum.

Sometimes you will not manage to do this, but the result is worth it. Step by step you will be able to arouse yourself with your fantasy and pleasant associations and achieve orgasm only with help of the thighs.

Some women prefer to rub against the seam of their jeans, others love masturbation having a dress or a skirt on. Dare experiment and you will certainly find the best way to give yourself pleasure!