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Although Anal Sex is usually associated with homosexual relationships, it is also practiced by some heterosexual couples.

When knowing the techniques, anal sex isn't something dirty or disgusting, though it has been considered as one of the taboos in many Western countries.

Why being an active partner?

• There is no big physiological difference for men to make anal insertion, be it man or a woman on the bottom.


• during anal sex penis is better enfolded by anus than by vagina, as the “embrace is a bit tighter”, and that means that stimulation is more intense.On the other side as your partner comes closer to having orgasm, neighbor erogenous zones (like prostate gland or G-spot)of the passive swells and it adds pressure on the penis.


• you have more possibilities to achieve orgasm simultaneously, which is surely an important thing in intimate relationships.


• you can better control passive part by stimulating his genitals, which is additional enhancement.

Why being a passive partner?

• If a woman is a receiving partner she gets sexual pleasure due to the abundance of nerve endings situated between the rectal wall and the vagina and in the anus itself.


• The man enjoys the tightness of the anus. Being a passive partner he gets pleasure mostly through the massage of the prostate gland.


• The rectal part of the intestines has many nerve endings connected with the nervous system of perineum. That's why anal sex can give you a lot of pleasant moments and you will be able to reach the orgasm as easily as during normal intercourse.

Sex toys used for anal sex

As you get used to the feeling you may try to insert a usual vibrator or a dildo into the anus. You may also prefer the vibrator in the anus during the usual intercourse. Your anus may become the second pleasant place for your partner's penis.
Usage of the vibrator gets your anus muscles used to the feeling of a big object inside you. It won't squeeze when there is a real penis in front of the anus and you will be able to relax.

Butt plugs

Butt plugs are anal sex toys that look like a short lozenge-shaped dildos with a flared base to prevent its lost in the rectum and tapering tip. Most will vary in styles, having ribbed or smooth surface , materials and colors to choose from. Butt plugs can be used either to be worn inside anus or simply for anal penetration.

Anal vibrators

Anal vibrators are much alike the butt plugs with the basic difference that they can vibrate, rotate, swirl and provide many other pleasant kind stimulation. Many anal vibrators are designed for a more comfortable and easy use , featuring remote-control and speed level control.

Anal beads

Anal beads is a type of sex toys meant to stimulate anal area in a special way. These anal toys look like series of beads connected to a cord and are made to be inserted inside anus and pulled out for intense enjoyable sensations.

Some DONT'S during anal sex:

• If you have no vibrator with you try something else but remember you shouldn't use anything that can be broken inside you during the spasm of anal muscles. It can be quite painful. Besides, it will be difficult to explain the doctors how a piece of soap or something else also very extraordinary happened to be in your anus.


• Don't go in for anal sex if the anus muscles aren't relaxed – inserting of the penis can be painful. Sometimes it happens and just need to wait for another time.


• Don't let your partner switch to vaginal sex immediately after anal sex without washing the penis or a sex toy – you can get an infection.


• Don't insert into the anus anything sharp or sharp edged. The intestines surface is very flexible but cutting or scratching can lead to trouble.

If you have some objections to that kind of kinky sex don't be silent, discuss it with your partner. But if you get the pleasure from the very first time you will soon discover that anal sex became a very important part of your intimate relations.

The pleasure from anal sex depends on your attitude towards it. Think of it as if it was a vaginal sex. If the slight pain appears, don't be zealous – it will only make the pain stronger. Relax and let your partner make sex as you like it most of all.