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It is not a secret that many men watch adult movies to refresh their sex fantasy. Indeed, adult movies can suggest some good ideas: new sex positions, sex games, use of sex toys… However, you should not think that erotic movies are the best example to follow. There are some things which can be often seen is this kind of movies but should not be done in reality.

1. In adult movies this happens like this:

She opened the door, saw a strange fellow and being overwhelmed by passion immediately began jumped into bed with him. Stop guys! Where is your condom? Oh, they are so aroused that cannot think about such minor things as protective measures. Mind you don’t follow their example! This girl whom you brought her pizza must not have a certificate that confirms her being healthy. She is not necessarily an erotic movies actoress who undergoes endless medical examinations in order to show us sex without any barriers between partners. Indeed, sex with condom does not seem romantic. But syphilis or gonorrhea are even less romantic and aesthetic.

2. BDSM admirers think that the whole world share their passion

They suppose that most people simply cannot free their minds and acknowledge that there is nothing like a good flogging.

But sexologists claim that only 30 per cent of women would not mind being a little slapped. And only 5-7 per cent of them would enjoy real flogging. Strangely enough, very few are eager to punish their beloved men with a lash. There is no use trying to seduce by this exquisite enjoyment those ladies whose erotic imagination initially has nothing to do with birches or wood benches. If your girlfriend has no passion for violence or being tortured, than no intimate conversations, no adult movies, no sex toys will talk her into flogging, beating and all this kind of sado-maso stuff. So do not expect your girlfriend to be happy about your suggestion to do things that you saw in your favorite adult movie. Try to find out her sex preferences in advance, if you do not want to shock her.

3 . Change the rhythm

The main adult movies viewers are men who regularly masturbate. Therefore rhythm of intercourse in such movies is rather suitable for this purpose. One-two-three, one-two-three… Without slowing down, without breaks, without any change of rhythm…
But in reality an invariable rhythm will not bring the desired result. Women like sudden, unpredictable motions, only in this way they enjoy sex and orgasm.

4. They do not often kiss in adult movies

Perhaps they do not kiss in order not to damage their makeup. Generally, actors do not often touch each other’s head, only sometimes men help their partners to perform oral sex. Therefore sex in adult movies lacks intimacy and affection, unlike yours when you rumple each other’s hair, kiss neck and look into each other’s eyes.

5. There are few women who like anal sex

A great number of ladies neglect oral sex even in their most dissolute fantasies. They are afraid of pain, and not in vain. The hole you are going to penetrate with your penis is not quite suitable for such a purpose, so bleeding caused by various anal injuries is more than possible.
We remind you again, that your girlfriend is not an adult movie actress who is always ready to do anything by order of the director. Therefore a) Find out what your girlfriend thinks about anal sex. Do not put anything (your penis, finger or a sex toy) into her anus without permission. b) Use lubricants c) After anal contact you must change condom or wash your penis if you want to have vaginal intercourse. Otherwise, you are likely to infect her.

7. Classical culmination – he ejaculates on her face

Perhaps he does this in order to persuade the partner (and viewers as well) that he did not simulate orgasm. Actually women are not happy with such final – semen makes eyes achy and ruins makeup. What to coitus interruptus as a method of contraception… Do you know that thanks to it many people in many countries of the world were born? May be you too?

8. And then they all got into one bed and began playing sex quartet…

Sometimes couples who are already tired of long lasting and happy staying together begin thinking that there is nothing bad about group sex. This is not a treason. And this is very interesting. Especially since we all are cultured and sane people.

Nevertheless, usually being cultured, sane and reasonable is not enough to maintain good relationships after you let strangers in your bed. Even if you are very devoted to each other, there is no guarantee this closeness and devotion will not be ruined. Therefore think carefully every time you are going to turn an adult movie into reality.